15 types of people you should never get into a relationship with.

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Guess who's back with the relationship talk? Yep, moi. I've been itching to write about this topic(Types of people you should never get into a relationship with) for a while now.

What I'll be listing down shortly are what we call "Red flags."

What exactly are red flags?

Red flags can be seen as a cue, warning, alert; a sign or signal that something is wrong.

In reality, red flags are something to not be taken lightly because if you ignore them you'll regret later. 

Most times people kid themselves by saying stuffs like 'if you love someone these won't matter because they're just flaws and would probably fade after a while', these are lies, illusions they tell themselves maybe because they're scared of admiting the relationship is toxic.

In a world where we can't read the minds of others, it's often times hard to predict or know what someone else thinks/feels about us. As humans we are curious to know certain things especially when it comes to relationships. How then do you know someone who genuinely loves you and the type of person to get into a relationship with? 

That brings us into today's topic. In my opinion, if someone truly loves you they wouldn't make you doubt their feelings towards you each and everyday and why you chose them. 

Let me give you a list of fifteen people you should stay away from and never ever, ever get into a relationship/friendship with

(I guess I love lists a lot😅)

1. Stay away from a person who refuses to share their past with you.

Don't say it's a flaw or they're not just the kind to share stuffs, if there's no sign of him/her opening up, please run away) it'll be risky to indulge in a relationship with such persons and later find out some deadly secrets you might regret later in life. Don't forget, communication is key.

2. Stay away from a person who hurts you and blames you for making them do it.

These set of persons usually use sentences like;

"you asked for it" 

"You're just too sensitive."

"I did it because I'm madly in love with you"

3. Stay away from a person who constantly reminds you you're not their type or their dream partner. 

It's a sign they're not just into you, probably using you to while away time. I tell you, this set of person's are dangerous as they would quickly replace you when their dream partner comes around. 

4. Stay away from a partner who frequently shoves your insecurities to your face.

They always point out your flaws, use hurtful words and mask them as humour and compare you to others.

A perfect example is someone who frequently body shames his partner.

5. Stay away from people who wants to isolate you from your family/friends/loved ones.

Often because they feel jealous, scared or threatened.

When you have to ask for permission before speaking to them or doing things you love doing, it's a visible red flag.

6. Stay away from people who manipulates you by threathening to kill themselves if you leave. 

I get so mad when people say it's a sign of love. No it's not, I'd call that obsession. 

7. Stay away from partners who never want to commit but doesn't want you seeing someone else.

what exactly are you keeping me as, a trophy? Always find closure, ask questions, where is this leading to because assumption will get you nowhere. 

8. Stay away from partners who tell your secrets to others and don't respect your boundaries. 

In every relationship there should be some sort of privacy, this is bad especially when it isn't a character flaw instead an intentional behavior.

9. Stay away from desperate people.

Some persons despise being alone/lonely and they won't mind dating the next person that comes into their life, make sure you aren't a victim. 

10. Stay away from a person who doesn't put you among their top priorities. 

A scenario where you have to beg for attention/communication and time. Giving you silent treatment

11. Stay away, if they treat you different from the way they treat others.

If he/she treats you better, shows you respect and doesn't show others, is nicer to you and not to others, chances are they're pretending and trying to con you into falling in love with them. 

12. Stay away from a person who makes it glaring that they don't see you in their future. 

Here's a link if you'd like to get more information on this.👇

50 signs he doesn't see a future with you.

13. Stay away from a relationship where you can't be yourself.

where they always want you to act a certain way just to fit their taste. 

14. Stay away from a person who's only attracted to your physical appearance. 

The reason is because it's shallow. To make a long lasting relationship other attributes are supposed to be in check. Many couples who married for this purpose are living a meaningless and valueless life.

15. Stay away from a partner who treats you so bad in public and so good in private. 

And vice versa.

In conclusion, It's always advisable to take your time when embarking on a relationship to avoid unnecessary heartbreaks and traumas. Red flags should never be neglected, the matters of the heart are highly significant. You're responsible for your mental health❣️

Well, that's the end of today's blog post and I hope you enjoyed it. Tell me what you think about this post in the comment section.

Aj loves you💕