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Hello, it’s me again. I know, I know. I disappeared🥺 There’s no excuse whatsoever because I had so many opportunities to post here.  I’m sorry😂 just like my topic. Anyways, now on today's topic. Is saying “Sorry” really enough? Truth be told, the word “sorry” has been misused by a lot of persons, hence losing its value. Some people deliberately do whatever they wish to do and say anything because they know there’s a word like “sorry” hanging somewhere they can just yank off and present.  “Heck, I’ll just apologize later” they say. Some even go to the extreme by saying “At least I apologized, that’s his/her problem”  There are some wrongs you can right by saying a sincere apology like “I’m sorry” but when you deeply hurt someone, there are some steps you should follow when apologizing.  That’s why you hear questions like “what exactly are you sorry for. How do I know you’re not just saying sorry. How am I sure you’re not just going to do it again? You see the averag...

Hello Guys🖐🥳🥳🥳  Who missed me? Okay, so one of my new year resolution was to get consistent with my blog and other literary works and believe you me, I was but my mobile phone decided to go bananas on me and hence, the break. It’s been a wonderful year so far, I’ve experienced so much this past few weeks and I’m grateful for the journey so far. I hope you do too😚 I took an interest on this topic because of so many stories I’ve heard and seen.  What exactly is a  misconception ? Well, misconception  is a view or opinion that is incorrect based on faulty thinking/understanding. We say experience is the best teacher but is it truly the best like we say? Wouldn’t it be better if we learnt something before attempting it? That way you’d have avoided the mistakes that came from being ignorant.  Now, straight on today’s topic, below are ten misconceptions concerning relationships that I would like to address and indulge you with. Please keep reading👓 1. I t’s bett...

It's the most wonderful time of the year, no doubt. Merry Christmas in arrears Lovelies. I assure you I didn't run away, school and exams happened.😁 I had no plans of making a blog post until next year but I knew that was me procrastinating again, so here I am guys. During the week, I observed how negative people behave and I realized it robbed off on me in some ways. I found myself saying "This has got to be the ' dryest ' holiday." I asked myself why I loved this festive season so much as a kid. Was it because of the songs, the gifts, the mood of the festive period or just getting to see loved ones and spending time together? Hmm. There's no doubt how challenging this year was for everyone. The corona virus which was accompanied with a lockdown affected relationships, businesses and institutions. However, we came out stronger, better and that is enough to be grateful. The festive season is all about gratitude and expressing love.  I'll quickly take ...

Hello! Hello! Hello!!! Guess who's back with the relationship talk? Yep, moi. I've been itching to write about this topic(Types of people you should never get into a relationship with) for a while now. What I'll be listing down shortly are what we call "Red flags." What exactly are red flags? Red flags can be seen as a cue, warning, alert; a sign or signal that something is wrong. In reality, red flags are something to not be taken lightly because if you ignore them you'll regret later.  Most times people kid themselves by saying stuffs like 'if you love someone these won't matter because they're just flaws and would probably fade after a while', these are lies, illusions they tell themselves maybe because they're scared of admiting the relationship is toxic. In a world where we can't read the minds of others, it's often times hard to predict or know what someone else thinks/feels about us. As humans we are curious to know certain t...

It's been what, two weeks? Oh wow, I've missed you guys so much. A lot of things snatched my attention for a while but I'm here now, all yours😆 Well, I tried fitting everything in here as a single blog post but it got too lenghty and I know how lenghty posts can be a turn off so I decided to split it into parts. Now, some of these things might not seem like a bad habit to you but trust me they are. Bad habits are basically things we do that keeps us from being our best, not so? I'm not going to go on about habits like binge drinking alcohol, smoking and the rest, my major aim is to talk about those simple things we probably might not have noticed before or don't pay much attention to. Here's my bucket list of bad habits to quit. 1. Boasting and bragging about not reading. It might seem cool when you hear statements like "Me and book are not one o" or "I'm not a fan of reading" most times when we say stuffs like this in publ...

Hello guys. Welcome to today's blog post. Today's topic is really a sensitive one and I'm certain you'll find a thing or two helpful. Please click on the subscribe button to notify you when I upload a new blog post, thank you so much. I think I've been running away from topics related to dating/relationships and break ups because I felt I wasn't worthy of talking about it since I have little experience there. Today's topic is a common one we've all heard of and might have experienced. In every relationship I believe there should be a common goal and reason for it. We all want a happy ending but what happens when things don't go as planned?  A lot of persons blame themselves after a breakup they didn't initiate. I once asked a friend of mine what it felt like having your heart broken? She said it wasn't any different from poking your chest with a hard object till it hurts. Wow. Heartbreaks are indeed painful🤕 The pain ass...

     "Tell me something you'd love to change about yourself" Avery asked me.      "Everything" I said.       "That's just so wrong. You can't think like that." She said with concern etched on her face.  Avery was just a year older than me but she spoke smartly and I couldn't help but envy her most of the time, sometimes I wished I was her. I  wished I had her hair, her clothings even down to her family.       "See Didi, if you don't love anything about yourself that's downright wickedness to yourself and our creator. Do you mean to say he made a mistake when_"      "Don't get me wrong Avery" I interrupted.      "I... I do like somethings about myself but_" I scoffed.       "But what?"      "They're kind of irrelevant"       "Tell me one thing atleast, Go on! Tell me the irrelevant things"      "w...

Fear they say is uncontrollable. Every human being is afraid of something one way or the other. The root cause is mainly traced to one's childhood. Is fear really? uncontrollable You'll find out as you keep reading. Phobia is an irrational or obsessive fear or anxiety, usually of or about something particular. Phobia could range from fear of water, dolls, insects, clowns and even adults. Usually, the source of these fears poses little or no danger. The difference between normal fear and phobia is the degree of anxiety involved. In this post, I'll be showing you some phobias you might never have heard of. 1. Nomophobia 'No MObile PHOne phoBIA' (Fear of being without your mobile phone) This is a psychological condition where half of the population suffers from this. According to a survey sponsored by SecurEnvoy, statistics showed that young adults and adolescents are more likely to suffer from Nomophobia. The same survey showed that 77% of the teenage...